Hello

How were you guys in your younger years or still are concerning relationships or sex?

Someone who's married having advice?

I know several having a long relationship over 5 years. This is not the way I plan to go
I'm 23, had several girlfriends... one for about 3 years
Only one night stand though

I'm in a relationship at the moment for over a year. She's really great, still I could later be thinking that i missed something i guess and she'd not profit from that as she is about 4 years older than me.


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Jossi

I don't really understand.

stick to the main questions
my personal details aren't really important, just how i've been living it

I'm just interested how you guys have been doing with girls and who knows, perhaps someone has wise words to share?

are or were you 'making love' to whatever girl you find? If not, why not, if yes, why and is it any good?
Did you fool your girls?

Are you asking "is sex good" and "why?"...dooooood

hehe

surprise: no i'm not asking whether sex is good

the question is about the attitude
do you fuck whatever has 2 legs and can't run away quickly enough or are you serious with a girl, and why?

I think MVP has been known to fvck things with anywhere from 1-4 legs...

Your question is VERY confusing...generally people do BOTH, but with different types of girls and for different reasons.

I've had my one-night stands, short sex-based relationsihps, and long ones...incl the one with my fiancee (>2yrs now).

Just like poker: it depends.

girls often are unable to get orgasms (~30% of women are able to get orgasms)

I think you will find this is a fictional statistic - it may well be that a signficiant % of women haven't had them but that doesn;'t mean that given the right circumstances they wouldn't

and as for only 30% of women being able to come - ha ha!

Until I settled down with my wife (about 8 years ago I guess) to whom I have been absolutely faithful I was mostly young free and single for 14 years from 18..

I didn't do one night stands (well not often) but had serial relationships - I never cheated on a GF btw.

I have probably slept with around 35 women (that's 3/yr btw so I'm no lothario).

Only one of those couldn't have an orgasm. She had been raped very badly when she was 13 (stranger rape - guy used a screwdriver - fucker) and couldn't reach orgasm (possibly for physiological reasons). The other 34 or so seemd to have no problem.

Now that either means:
I am the luckiest man alive - like getting dealt 35 consecutive top 30% hands..
or
I am such an amazing lover that I reach the parts other lovers can't (well I'd like to think so but I doubt iI'm that exceptional in bed)
or
70% of the women are faking orgasms - in which case it seems odd that they kept soming back for sex..
or
your 30% statistic is bullshit..






the same goes for female multiple orgasms btw - if they can have one, they can have lots..

sex is fun and if you are unattached feel free to enjoy it as often as you like

cheating on your GF lacks class though - if you don't want to be exclusive then don't lie to her that you do..

this is doubly so once you are engaged/married and triply so if you have kids..

I'm still not sure what the hell the question is.

I'm now 51. I've been married thrice, the first time before I was 20. That was done back then. Perfectly normal. Probably half my graduating class got married soon after high school. The rules have changed considerably since then. Now, as the Divine Miss M said in a movie, "Your 20s are for going to bed with all the wrong people. Your 30s are for getting married." Makes sense.

The one thing to know which I didn't know. The secret to success in life. Marry up. Marry someone you think is better than you, not that you can make better. You can't. And marry one time, only. If you do like I did, and marry serially, you'll never have any security, because you're always starting over.

As for sex, a confession, one I'm sorta proud of and then not so proud of...

I've had sex with somewhere betwen 100 and 200 women. Now that's a pretty large number between, but honestly could not count. I probably had sex with 40 women just in college alone, after being a virgin through high school. The 70's were fun. I once got close to a hundred in memory, before I was 40, and gave up. I've slept with a LOT of women. 2 had difficulty achieving orgasm. I learned some from 30 onward. I wish I could run into those two again. lol

I've had a great sex life, and a lousy non-sex life. Sex had been my one constant success in life, and I've paid a huge price for it. Women are expensive, whether it's a one-time dinner, one-year relationship, or one time offer. And every one has been worth the cost.

So, marry up, one time, stay with her, build a life and live happily ever after. Remember, even with the most beautiful woman in the world, some guy is tired of putting up with her chit. They all have plusses and minuses, just as we do. Finding one who'll put up with YOUR chit, and doesn't have a lot of her own, is a helluva trick. It's only taken me 50 years. Finally.

Good goddamn' luck with the womens.