It's not right that she was offended and no one did anything, so no offense meant by this. But next time you have an issue like this, you should either:
A. PM a mod and deal with it in private; or
B. Post the offensive content so all of us can discuss how bad it really was. (which you can do without posting the name of the person who said it so only a few people know who the alleged A-hole is)
All this speculation usually ends badly. Although it has lead to some decent humour and entertainment
